Terms & Lingo

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W

A - A - A
  • AC/DC - Bisexual
  • AGATE - A small penis 
  • AKA - Also Known As 
  • AMP - Asian Massage Parlor 
  • ANALINGUS - Kissing, licking and penetration of the anus by the tongue (aka Asian, Rimming) 
  • ANUS - The opening of the rectum  
  • AROUND THE WORLD - The act of kissing the entire body as a prelude to sex 
  • ASS - The buttocks 
  • ASSHOLE - The anus  
  • ATF - All Time Favorite 
  • AUTO-SADISM - An act whereby one inflicts pain on oneself 
  • AAMP = Apartment Asian Massage Parlor. Based in a residential apartment insteadof a commercial storefront.
  • ABC = american born chinese
  • ABJ = american born japanese
  • Agency = a company that manages calls, bookings, and advertising for a group of escorts.
  • AMP = Asian Massage Parlor
  • Analingus = licking anus
  • AO = Asian Only. AO AMP = AMP servicing Asian clients only
  • Asian = analingus
  • Asian Cowgirl = girl on top, squatting
  • ASP = Adult Service Provider, or alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup
  • ATF = all time favorite
  • ATM = ass to mouth = penis, toy, finger goes from ass to mouth.
  • Attempts = trying to orgasm
  • Aunt Flo = menstruation, period
  • AUXILIARY INTERCOURSE - Sexual climax achieved by moving the erect penis back and forth in the armpit
B - B - B
  • BACK SCUTTLE- Perform anal intercourse (aka Backdoor or Greek)
  • BAG- The scrotum
  • BACK YARD - The buttocks
  • BALLS - The testicles
  • BARE BACK BLOW JOB (BBBJ) - oral sex with out a condom (aka French without)
  • BOY FRIEND EXPERIENCE (BFE) - client who treats the provider more like a date. This is a more intimate session with talking, kissing, lots of touching, fondling, mutual pleasure and this is best achieved during a two or more hour session.
  • BI-SEXUAL- One who enjoys both sexes
  • BLIND - An uncircumcised penis
  • BLOW - To perform oral intercourse
  • BLOW JOB (BJ) - The act of oral intercourse
  • BLUE BALLS - Severe need to experience sexual orgasm
  • BLUE MOVIES - Porno movies
  • BOOBS - Female breast
  • BONKERS -Female breast
  • BRONCO - Young male who is difficult to restrain during intercourse
  • BUNS- The buttocks
  • B&S = bait and switch = person who shows up is a different one than advertised
  • Babyback = petite, young, attractive Asian
  • Balloons = breast implants
  • BB = bareback = without condom
  • BTW = by the way
  • BBBJ = bare back blow job = BJ without condom, beebeebeejay
  • BBBJTC = bare back blow job to completion (in mouth)
  • BBBJTCIM = bare back blow job to completion in mouth
  • BBBJTCNQNS = bare back blow job to completion, no quit, no spit
  • BBBJTCWS = bare back blow job to completion with swallow
  • BBBJWF = bare back blow job with facial
  • BBFS = bare back sex
  • BBK = big beautiful knockers
  • BBW = big beautiful woman
  • BCD = behind closed doors
  • BDSM = bondage, discipline, sado-masochism.
  • BF = boy friend
  • BFE = boy friend experience
  • Birdwatching = BBBJTCWS
  • BLS = ball licking and sucking
  • Blue Jay = blow job
  • Blue Pill = Viagra
  • BSB = bus stop babe
  • Butter Face = everything looks good, but her face
 C - C - C
  • CANDY MAKER -A woman who masturbates a male and swallows the ejaculated semen
  • CIRCUMCISION-When foreskin of the penis is surgically removed
  • CLAP-Gonorrhea or other venereal disease
  • CLIMAX - To reach the high point of sexual activity. Usually refers to male ejaculation
  • CLIT-The clitoris
  • CLITORIS - -Female genitalia
  • COCK -The penis
  • COCKTEASER-One who sexually stimulates a male but does not carry on to actual sexual relations
  • COLD - Does not respond to sexual stimulation
  • COME --To achieve sexual orgasm
  • CONDOM -Rubber sheath worn on the penis
  • CORONA- -Rim of flesh which forms the base of the head of penis
  • COWGIRL -Girl On Top
  • CRABS -Lice which infect the pubic area of the body
  • CRUISE-The hunt for a sex partner
  • CUNNILINGUS-Stimulating a woman's genitals with your mouth (aka muff diving, oral sex, licking or munching)
  • CUM -Semen
  • CUNT -The vagina
  • Cash and Dash = ROB who takes your money and runs
  • CBJ = covered blow job = BJ with condom
  • CC Rider = full service provider costing $200 or less
  • CD = cross dresser
  • CDS = covered doggy style
  • CFS = covered full service = Sex with condom
  • CG = cowgirl = girl on top facing you
  • CH = Crazy Horse, SF Strip Club
  • CIM = cum in mouth
  • CL = craigslist.org
  • CMD = carpet matches drapes, typically a natural blonde
  • CMT = Certified Massage Therapist. A professional masseuse.
  • Cowgirl = CG = girl on top facing you
  • Cover = condom
  • Cups of Coffee = releases = orgasms
  • Cruising = driving around, looking for streetwalkers
 D - D - D
  • DAISY CHAIN - A group sex activity in which there is a linking of several people by oral connections
  • DATY - Dining At The Y (Stimulating a woman's genitals with your mouth (aka muff diving, oral sex, licking or munching)
  • DFK - Deep French Kissing
  • DERRIERE- The buttocks
  • DICK- The penis
  • DIDDLE- To perform masturbation
  • DOG - An unattractive person
  • Doggie Style -Sexual position used by canines - male is behind female and pushes penis into vigina
  • DONG - The penis
  • DOSE- Gonorrhea or other venereal disease
  • DRY FUCK- Moving against on another, clothed. To simulate intercourse
  • DAP = digital anal probe = finger in anus
  • DATO = dining at the o = analingus
  • DDP = double digit penetration, kitty and anus
  • DS = doggy style
  • DSL = dick sucking lips
  • Doubles = A threesome with two girls and you
  • DDE = doesn't do extras (PS only)
  • DDG = drop dead gorgeous
  • DIY = do it yourself (masturbation)
  • DP = double penetration, two guys on one girl
  • DT = deep throat, entire length of penis taken in mouth
 E - E - E
  • EAT- To perform oral intercourse
  • EJACULATION- Discharge of cum from the penis during sexual climax
  • ERECTION - The sexual aroused state caused by a rush of blood into the veins and capillaries of the penis
  • Escort = a temporary companion for hire
  • EXHIBITIONIST- person who derives sexual gratification by displaying his body to others
F - F - F
  • FAMILY JEWELS-The testicles
  • FELLATIO- To kiss, nibble, lick or suck the penis (aka blow Job, oral sex)
  • FETISH - An object or part of the body which is normally considered non-sexual but which arouses erotic feelings such as leather, rubber, fair, feet, panties, etc.
  • FISTING-Inserting your entire hand into your partner's vagina or anus
  • FLAGELLATION - Beating or whipping to sexual orgasm
  • FRENCH-To perform oral intercourse
  • FRENCH KISSING- deep kissing on the mouth and with the tongue
  • FULL BODY SENSUAL MASSAGE (FBSM) - Massage and hand job
  • FULL HOUSE - Having more than one venereal disease at the same time
  • FULL SERVICE (F/S) - Sexual Intercourse
  • FBSM = full body sensual massage
  • FIA = finger in ass
  • Fire and Ice = a blowjob switching between hot tea and ice
  • FIR = finger in rear
  • FIV = finger in vagina
  • FKK = Frei Körper Kultur. German brothel / nudist club.
  • FOB = fresh off the boat. Asian immigrant recently arrived in the US.
  • FOV = finger outside vagina
  • FS = full service = BJ + Sex
  • FUAD = face up ass down
G - G - G
  • GANG BANG - Group sex where one is fucked consecutively by many
  • GENITALS - The human reproductive organs
  • GET IT UP - To achieve an erect penis
  • GET SOME - To attain sexual intercourse with someone
  • GET YOUR ROCKS OFF - To ejaculate
  • GIVE HEAD- To perform oral intercourse
  • GO DOWN ON- To perform oral intercourse
  • GIRL FRIEND EXPERIENCE (GFE)- veryone has a different interpretation of this term but in general, a GFE is a more intimate session provided by an escort. She usually allows french kissing, touching, looks deeply in your eyes. The blow job is usually without a condom, she does not rush or watch the clock. She is friendly, sweet, accommodating and a good conversationalist. This escort is more like a date/girl friend.
  • GOLDEN SHOWER-One person urinates onanother for sexual pleasure
  • GOOSE - Press a finger into the cleavage of the buttocks
  • GREEK - To perform anal intercourse
  • GROPE - To handle another's genitals
  • G-STRING - A small brief worn over the genitals
  • GFE = girlfriend experience. Typically BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG
  • GFE lite = light GFE, girlfriend experience with CBJ
  • GFE++ = RBGFE with extras (like CIM,swallow,greek)
  • GG = Golden Gypsy. defunct, famous Berkeley massage parlor
  • GND = girl next door
  • Greek = anal sex, back door
  • GS = golden shower = urination play
  • GSM = g-spot massage
H - H - H
  • Half & Half -This is both oral sex and intercourse
  • HAND JOB (HJ)- hen one partner uses their hands to masturbate another person
  • HARD ON - An erect penis
  • HARD UP -Lack of sexual activity and need for a sex partner
  • HETROSEXUAL - One who desires sex only with the opposite sex
  • HORNY - Desire and need to have sex
  • HORSE AROUND - To explore sexually without engaging in intercourse
  • HOT PANTS - Sexually aroused
  • HUNG - To describe the size of a large penis
  • happy ending = A handjob (usually) or blowjob after your massage
  • hardwood floors = clean shaven kitty
  • Hat = condom
  • HDH = high dollar hottie
  • HJ = hand job = a manual / hand release
  • HH = half hour
  • HM = high mileage
  • HME = honeymoon experience, lapdog heaven
  • HWP = height and weight proportionate
  • hooker = prostitute
I - I - I
  • Incall - You the client go to the provider's location
  • ISO = in search of
  • IMPOTENT - Unable to engage in sexual intercourse
J - J - J
  • JACK OFF-To masturbat
  • JERK OFF-To masturbat
  • JOHN - One who financially supports another for sex favors
K - K - K
  • KICKS -Sexual thrills
  • KGFE = Korean GFE, usually RBGFE except with CBJ
  • kitty = vagina
L - L - L
  • LACE CURTAINS - The foreskin of the penis
  • LAY - To perform sexual intercourse
  • LE-Law Enforcement
  • LIBIDO - Sexual appetite
  • LOAD - The fluid from an ejaculation
  • Lapdog = person who worships providers to excess.
  • LD = lap dance
  • LDL = low dollar looker (opposite of HDH)
  • LE = ellie = law enforcement
  • LK = light kissing, closed mouth
  • LOS = land of smiles = Thailand
M - M - M
  • MAKE OUT-To succeed sexually
  • MASOCHISM -here sexual gratification is achieved by pain
  • MASTURBATION-Manual manipulation of genitals
  • MISSIONARY-he male is on top during intercourse
  • MATINEE-A sex session in the afternoon
  • MUTUAL MASTURBATION -Where partners manipulate each other's genitals
  • Mamasan = female manager of a massage parlor
  • MBOT = Mitchell Brothers O'Farrell Theatre, SF Strip Club
  • MBR = multiple bell ringing = MSOG
  • MILF = mom I'd like to f-ck
  • Mish = missionary position, or the SF Mission District
  • Missionary = man on top, girl on back
  • Mohawk = thin rectangular strip of pubic hair
  • MP = massage parlor, MP = multiple pops = multiple releases
  • MSC = Market Street Cinema, SF Strip Club
  • MSOG = multiple shots on goal = multiple releases
N - N - N
  • NARCISSISM -One who is stimulated by one's own body
  • NECK-To embrace, kiss and fondle
  • NUTS -The testicles
  • NCT = New Century Theatre, SF Strip Club
  • non-pro = civilian, not a professional provider
  • NP = no problem
  • NSA = no strings attached
O - O - O
  • OLD DIRT ROAD -Using the anus for intercourse
  • ONE WAY-ill perform only one type of sexual activity
  • ORGASM -The peak of sensation during sexual activity
  • Outcal -he provider comes to your location
  • OWO = oral without condom
  • OWOTC = oral without condom to completion
  • OP = original poster, original post
P - P - P
  • PEARL DIVER -One who performs oral sex on the penis
  • PEARL NECKLACE-Ejaculate on breasts
  • PECKER -The penis
  • PEDERASTY-Insertion of the penis into the anus
  • PEEPING TOM-A voyeur
  • PENIS -The male sex organ
  • PERVERT -One who receives sexual gratification from kinky sex acts
  • PETER-The penis
  • PHALLUS-The penis
  • PISS HARD ON -An erect penis caused by the need to urinate
  • POKE-To engage in sexual intercourse
  • PRE-CUM JUICE -Natural lubrication which is released from the penis
  • PROSTATE-Glands located at the base of urethra which eject semen
  • PT -A prick teaser
  • PUSSY-Vagina
  • P2P = private to private, typically uncovered, rubbing of penis with vagina without penetration
  • papasan = male manager of a massage parlor
  • party hat = condom
  • PIV = penis in vagina
  • PL = Pathetic Loser
  • PM = prostate massage or private message (inbox)
  • PO = phone operator (for making appointments)
  • PS = private show (Dance)
  • PSE = Porn Star Experience
  • PV = private viewing (Dance)
  • PYT = pretty young thing
Q - Q - Q
  • QUICKIE -A very brief sex act
R - R - R
  • RECTUM -The tube between the colon and the anus
  • RIM-o use the tongue on the anus
  • ROD-The penis
  • RUBBER -A condom
  • RUSSIAN -penis rubbing between breasts = Pearl Necklace = titty fuck
  • RB = myredbook.com
  • RBGFE = myRedBook's definintion of GFE (BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY, and MSOG)
  • Reverse cowgirl = RCG = girl on top facing away
  • Reverse massage = you massage her
  • Rimming = analingus
  • RMP = Russian Massage Parlor
  • ROB = Rip Off Bitch
  • Roman shower = vomit play
  • RPG = role playing games
S - S - S
  • SADISM-Sexual stimulation associated with the desire to inflict pain, physical or mental on another
  • SADOMASOCHISM -Both sadism and masochism existing in the same person
  • SCORE-To achieve sexual intercourse
  • SEMEN -The fluid produced during ejaculation of the male
  • SHOOT -To achieve orgasm
  • SIXTY-NINE-Genital oral intercourse performed by both partners simultaneously
  • SODOMY-The insertion of the penis into the anus
  • SPERM-The fluid that erupts from the penis during ejaculation
  • STALLION-A male who possesses a very large penis
  • STRAIGHT-A heterosexual
  • SUCK OFF -To perform oral intercourse on the penis
  • SWITCH HITTER-A bi-sexual
  • SC = Strip Club
  • Self-Service = you masturbate
  • SF = San Francisco
  • Shill = an insider posing as a satisfied customer
  • SO = significant other
  • SOG = shot on goal = one release
  • SOMF = sat on my face
  • South of the Border = gential region
  • Southern France = BBBJ
  • SP = Service Provider
  • SPA = streetwalker stroll: San Pablo Avenue in Oakland, CA
  • Spanish = ATM = ass to mouth
  • Spinner = very petite, thin girl
  • Starfish = anus, or girl that is unresponsive in bed
  • STD = sexually transmitted disease
  • Stroll = path frequented by street walkers
  • SW = street walker
T - T - T
  • TESTICLES -The male reproductive glands
  • TRICK -A sex partner
  • TG = transgender
  • TGTBT = too good to be true
  • TIA = thanks in advance
  • Tina = crystal meth
  • TJ = Tijuana
  • TL = Tenderloin district, San Francisco. between Van Ness Ave, Post St, Taylor St, and Golden Gate Ave
  • TLC = tender loving care
  • TLD = topless lap dance
  • Tossing Salad = analingus
  • Trip to islands = greek = anal sex
  • Troll = rude and hideous PL
  • Trolling = Posting thinly disguised ads in a discussion forum
  • TOFTT = Take one for the team. In reference to a new, non-reviewed provider.
  • TS = transexual
  • TUMA = tongue up my ass
  • TV = transvestite
V - V - V
  • VACUUM CLEANER -ne who applies great suction during oral sex
  • VAGINA -Orifice of female sex organs
  • VERSATILE -Bi-sexual
  • VOYEUR-One who gains sexual satisfaction from watching others undressing or engaged in sexual acts
W - W - W
  • WATER SPORTS -Sex play involving urine. (aka piss play or Golden Shower)
  • WHAM BAM ->Rapid and hurried sexual activity
  • WIENER - -The penis
  • WORK OFF-To masturbate
Y - Y - Y
  • Your Mileage May Vary (YMMV) -Providers may do certain things with one client but not with another. Also, what you expect from a provider may be different to that of another client.